Miscarriage pt 2

So I told you I would finish my last part of my miscarriage story. What I'm about to tell you might be vulgar and very detailed... 

If you have a weak stomach....

  do not read this post. 

Anyways, I haven't really felt like dealing with it. I still think I'm in shock because I haven't cried like I think I'm suppose to. Maybe that's why I am having headaches everyday. I duno...but I'm making sure to schedule an appointment with my regular doctor before I lose my medicaid. 



So when I wrote about my miscarriage on that Saturday, I still had my baby inside of me that weekend. I was scheduled for a D&E the following Monday. The day before my surgery my doctor had proscribed me something to take to dilate my cervix around 8pm that night... Well I didn't go to sleep til about midnight and I was what I thought was cramping must have been having contractions. I went to sleep on it though. 



Around 2:30 am Monday morning December 23, I started bleeding. Not just any bleeding... I felt like something was about to come out. I hit Joe and told him "I'm about to bleed" and ran to the bathroom. Something had come out and blood was running down my leg. 



I sat on the toilet and saw something hanging from me, I grabbed a paper towel and pulled it from me. I had a feeling I knew what it was before I even touched it but I just was in shock. It was my baby looking at me .. in my hands. with his little arms, and hands and fingernails... his mouth open. looking at me. I think I was there for about 30 minutes before my mom and Joe came into the bathroom and told me to come on. 



I felt light headed and since the last time I felt like that I knew I had to go to the e.r.. We spent all morning there. While we were there they ran test to check me, gave me medicine to stop my cramps, and also gave me my baby boy wrapped in a blue blanket. I had the doctor look and find out that we were expecting a baby boy! The first thought in my head at that time, was really?!!!! I just knew it was a girl!!! 



We named him Elijah Joel Bynom. He looked just like Joe... It was crazy. I'm not going to post a full picture of Elijah due to graphic matters but I do have a few pictures I will share... 

After everything I said about not knowing if I could have went through labor and actually be sane after.. I am glad that this happened. I got to meet and hold my angel. Even though I don't have closure on why he stopped breathing inside of me, & I may never know... but I know this is a common thing now and I just have to hope that God has a plan for me. 

We had him cremated a few days later. 

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Liebster Award.

Emma over at Makeup Love nominated me for the Liebster award! that's my 3rd one this year, and I am very excited to do another one!!  You can see my other posts here and here If you don't know what this award is, it is give to bloggers with less than 200 followers and it helps to promote their blogs.



 

The rules are super simple:

1. Nominees must link back the person who nominated them.

2. Once nominated you must write 11 random facts about yourself.

3. You must also answer the 11 questions from the person that has nominated you.

4. You come up with 11 new questions.

5. And you nominate 11 people that have under 200 GFC followers and let them know. You can't tag back.

I think this is a great way to learn more about bloggers, as well as discover new and exciting blogs to follow!

11 Random Facts About Me: 



you can see a lot of random fact about me -----



HERE (first award)  



HERE (second award) 



& also HERE ....when I linked up with Whitney over @ I wore yoga pants =)

 HER Questions for Me:

1. Do you like to travel? yes, that would be my full time job if I could make a living off of it! I love road trips or anything adventurous!

2. What is your favorite thing to do to relax? painting my nails, it's my "me time" as a mommy and working full time it's definitely just cool to sit in bed and paint my nails lol

3. What is your favorite TV show? my favorite at the moment would be Revenge.

4. Why do you blog? It's my outlet, something to pass time, many more reasons

5. What is your favorite thing to study?

6. What are you most proud of right now? I'm proud of my boyfriend, Joe who just passed his GED

7. What is your favorite animal and why? i would say a cat because I have two, but I'd be lying lol, they are so lazy and boring after the first year. i'd have to say a dog.

8. What did you (or do you) want to be when you grew/grow up?

9. What is your all time favorite book? anything by Zane, I love sex & love novels =)

10. What is a staple in your everyday bag? Well it would have to be my lip gloss, or more like my chap stick.

11. If you could pick up and travel to anywhere for two weeks without having to worry about money, where would you go? Paris, or Jamaica ! I would love to visit Rio

11 Blogs that I Nominate:

this ladies, I will save for another time. i nominated three times before but no one replies, it's pointless to go through the trouble LOL soooooo in that case I will end this post now !  thank you again @ Emma and talk to you lovely ladies later!

 

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Allow Me to Re-Introduce Myself...

H to the izO  V tothe izA

 lol

no I'm just kiddin, 

but who doesn't love Jay Z?! =)



HEY Y'ALL! ... I see a lot of new faces to my blog & I can't tell you how effin glad I am to have you here with me!!!! I've only been blogging for about 2 months, I read your blogs when I get a chance (mostly when i am at work) and can honestly say I feel like I'm getting closer to you every day & I love that! 



Let me take a minute to re-Introduce myself. (Speaking of ....I don't really think I have given a proper introduction! ) in the words of my son "OH WELL!" Here it is! 



My name is Christin (chris- teen) a nickname given to me was teen. since i was a young brat gettin detention in middle school my stepfather & friends, gave me this name.. i just turned 25. A leo (August 13th)... I was born in Germany, but no I don't speak German.. I only know the bad words...lol. I'm an army brat, still livin with my parents in Virginia! My Son is 3 years old, Josiah. He is VERY rambunctious, & I am constantly having to chase after him. Most of the time with my camera (being my GalaxyS3) in-hand trying to get pictures every chance i get. Trying being the key word. i do not claim to be a photographer, although when i was younger i always wanted to be one (and many more things)



I am a mother, daughter, sister, a girlfriend who is very grateful for everyone that I have in my life! I sometimes say bad words..i just recently started cussing in front of my mom! lol I am shy,  and I'm blunt(contradicting huh), shy until you get to know me, then I can be loud and maybe at times annoying because most of the time i tell you like it is!!! I repeat myself a lot. i love giving.... I AM WAY TOO NICE. Easily annoyed, but VERY nice. for the most part lol



I don't always put a period at the end of my sentences....or dot my i's. Grammar/English has never been my best subject! I probably capitalize my words or use these ( ) too much. most of the time, im just rambling like i am now and not even remember where i started my conversation...maybe thats the true blond coming out of me...idk who cares..lol


I'm addicted to nail polish, Pepsi max, social media, money, & a lot of other random things! I am not in school, yet. I work full time at a hotel, front desk...which will hopefully change to the office soon. i am an impulsive shopper... My son is my world and I love him so much!!





I just started blogging about a month ago. I don't know yet if I am even good at this whole blogging thing but hopefully by reading so many great ones, I can learn to be a better writer of my thoughts...cuz lets face it when these thoughts are in my head,its like a ruff draft--and tryin to type them is a lot harder then one might think. lol



 If you haven't noticed yet my blog is about any and everything, whatever I fancy that day.. I go through my emails, find great deals for you and me. I show you my manicures (whenever I feel like paintin em). I also show you whats goin on in my crazy house (especially with a 3 year old) can be pretty damn wild.



What brought me to the blog world, you ask? or maybe you didn't, but i'll tell you anyways... INSTAGRAM... I am very close to being addicted to it. I have almost 2,000 followers & I do random nail art contests and giveaways. I am just that nice. I was going to do a blog on just my manicures, until I found the perfect name and slogan for it.. and i dont really do nail art, just painting lol I absolutely love it...don't you?  I hope to continue meeting great people, maybe even meet up with some of you lovely ladies one day.



 

 thank you for reading about me!

 If your new leave a comment with your blog and I'll be sure to check it out! 



P.S. for all you newbie bloggers, I found a blog that really helped with things i didn't know at all how to do! Whitney @ Sippy cups and Pearls has this blog post just for "newbies" CHECK IT OUT!!! 



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5forFIVE, monday link-ups & {another award!}

OKAY ladies..  try not to be so bummed because Mondays do suck esp because im at work! but I got another Award! yay 



Thank you Latesha @ By the Light of the Moon {Phoenix}  for another Liebster Award! i feel so honored! no seriously, i do! I'm so thankful to have people that actually READ my blog! i love that feeling! so thank you again girl! 



 for those of you who don't know The Liebster Blog Award is
an award given by bloggers to up and coming bloggers, most of whom have
less than 200 followers (or have been blogging for less than 6 months).
It is to show newer bloggers that they are appreciated, and to help
spread the word about new
blogs. It was created to promote appreciation and recognition among the
blog world. Liebster translates to “dearest” (or favorite/best) in
German. It is also known as the Love Blog Award.

                             Answer 11 questions about myself 

                     Share 11 facts about me 

          Nominate 11 bloggers with less than 200 followers 

Produce 11 questions for nominees 

And each nominee must link back to me as you are finished in your blog post!

Questions for Me

1. What's the history behind your blog name? - well! i was going to start a blog about just nails, for my Instagram so i started looking up blog names, and came across Manicures and extra frosting... so i changed the frosting to sprinkles and fell in love!
   


2. How long have you been blogging? - I've only been blogging for about two months!


3. Why did you start blogging? - my intentions were to start a nail diary, but then i thought about how i really don't do many tutorials, i just paint my nails, that would be boring! lol so now its about my recent manis and my life!


4. Name 1 item you could not live without. (ANYTHING- beauty product, clothing, food, physical object, etc.) - my phone! i have it attached to me 24/7


5. What is your favorite fairytale? Why? - any damn Disney movie! they are all soooooooo sweet & (so fairytale) !


6. What song do you have on your iPod, phone, Mp3, etc. that you would be embarrassed for others to hear? - I'm not ashamed of anything that i have music wise! lol sorry i don't have Britney Spears or Backstreet Boys or Nsync in there! hah aha


7. When was your most recent public embarrassment - probably falling drunk at a bar! not once but twice, or maybe three times!! LMAO


8. Which was the 1st blog you started following? - you know what i honestly can't even remember who the very first one was, i started following like 100 or more blogs a day! LOL i know i don't know what i was thinking! like i could see all those blogs everyday! haha but i do remember a few of the first i stumbled across were...  Ricci @ A Beautiful Mess   //  Aunie @ AunieSause  // Halie @ Penguins, Pasta & polka Dots


9. What is your favorite post from your blog? - my favorite post is probably
   " What's inside your bag? " it was probably my first real post lol thanks to Ricci & Aunie & Halie!


10. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world- living or dead- who would it be and why? - Channing Tatum !!!!!!!!!!     let's be real who WOULDNT want o have dinner with him???


11. What should my next blog topic be? - Another recipe the one you posted Saturday looked delicious! lol no but seriously I love your inspirational posts! I need some of that in my life right now!!!! <3

11 facts (oh yeah some more facts about ME)

• I love Pepsi Max


• i think i have an eating disorder, called binge eating!! i looked it up !!! wow! that is me ! -___-    ok ...lets get it straight though I DONT THROW IT BACK UP lol


• i seriously hate the "gummy bear song" with a damn passion!!!!! I want to kill my sons father for introducing it to him!


• i think i might be a hoarder, i thought it was just for nail polish, but when i think about it, i dont like throwin anything away!! my son is the same way! his horse is missing two legs, but does he want to throw it away? NO! he get is from his momma! lol


• i am a full time mother and full time employee at a hotel, desperately wanting a desk job!


•  i wish i could quit my job and make blogging a full time job!


• i dont want to go back to school because i dont know what i actually want to do...i know so many people who waste money on school and end up going into a whole nother field.. who got time for that?!


• i really hate being lied to


• i have 6 sisters, two half, and two step, and two by a dad that raised me when i was younger. 


• i have three daddies. lol i have my real dad which i met when i was like 18 ( i am so thankful to have gotten to meet him & his wife and my two half sisters..that's a whoooole separate blog post LOL) i have my dad that raised me when i was younger (born - roughly age 5) then i have my stepdad which i currently live with and my mom is happily married to for about 14? years lol anyways like i said that's for another blog post lol. 


• i am a cigarette smoker, and really really want the e-cig!  


• my number one go-to lip moisturizer is my carmax, i have a million tubes but i always end up losing them and when that happens my world is upside down! i tear up my room and car looking for it 

  oops i think that was more then 11. oh well! lol

my Nominees are.... ( in no specific order) 

1. Life in Bloom


2. It's all in the details


3. A simple kind of wonderful


4. The Bliss Diaries




5. Unabashedly Me




6. Life as Becca




7. The Gallivanting Girl Blog


8. The Literatorium


9. Keeping Plus


10. The Momma Experience


11. ..Hello, Good Morning Sunshine

 my Questions for y'all...

1. how many siblings do you have?


2. growing up, who was your idol, & why?


3. are you an early bird, or a night owl?


4. when did you start blogging? 


5. why did you start blogging?


6. what is the story behind your blog name? 


7.  your favorite holiday & why?


8. if you had a super power, what would it be?


9. what is your favorite food?


10. how many blogs do you read on a daily basis?


11. what are you doing for valentine's day & are you going to have a post about it? ;)

I probably have already chosen half of the blogs before in my last award post , but these are some of the ones i read on a daily basis,that are awesome & that have less than 200 followers. i love them and everyone should click on each and every one of them and start following and reading along! now ! =D

hope to hear all your answers this time, i know last time. i don't think anyone replied to me with a response LOL

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goals for last week ;

1. GET MY CAR OUT OF THE SHOP -i have not yet! but i have to on Thursday.

2. GET MY TAXES DONE -nope! i planned on getting them done at a dealership where they double but it ended up being that they double UP TO 2,000.. ughh

3. SHOP FOR VALENTINES DAY - yep! and i think im done! im already over valentines day! lol  (this is when you know me and my boyfriend are arguing)

 4. DON'T EAT FAST FOOD THIS WEEK - other then the first night when i wrote this, i haven't paid for any take-out, or fast, food!! yay for me

5. DO A RANDOM ACT Of KINDNESS!
- yessir I was in line at the dollar store Saturday, and someone behind me only had a few items, so i paid for it. OK let me be honest!!!! i waited near the register pretending i was looking at stuff for someone to come in line that only had a few items! sorry im broke but i wanted to make this goal green!



goals for this week ; 

1. GET MY CAR OUT OF THE SHOP - I have procrastinated long enough on paying them there 100 dollar to tell me whats wrong with my car...


2. FILE MY TAXES - I need my moneeeeyyyyyyyyyy!

3. DON'T EAT FAST FOOD - and this time I only mean like Mcdonalds, and that junk! im trying to stay clear and diet one step at a time.. lord help me with this binge eating disorder!


4. SEND OUT ALL MY MAIL - yeah cupid swap, nail mail, and important shit... which all needs to go out tomorrow!!! im such a procrastinator =/

5.  DO A RANDOM ACT OF KINDNESS - I enjoyed it so much I want to do it again,times are hard even for me but I want to spread the kind love around, I remember one time I was in line a chic fi la {damn they are expensive} and someone in front of me paid for my breakfast.. not even thinking(i was young like 19) not even thinking about how nice that was and how I should do the same! so I'm repaying now!

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this weekend I ...

1// did art n crafts with the kids  2// was this {-} close to buying a new car,, sigh i should have taken the offer! im so upset & confused i don't really feel like writing about it right now, so i'll save that post for another time !  3//  painted my nails at work [a lot] but i'll just show you two lol  4// slept in Sunday after work but still had time to chill wihtmy baby boy and party a lil for football  5// made and ate some really good football snack-ish food!  

yep.. i that order!

 HOW WAS YOUR WEEKEND?? 

LINK - UP & LET ME KNOW YOU STOPPED BY ! HOLLA!

Guest Speakers?

I am so new to blogging, and i have been taking a look at some of my posts and hey to be honest, i look really boring, because all of my posts are kinda layed out the same for every day. lol! Sorry for that & this is why i want to [not link up every week to my linky parties] just every other week, and also do some guest posts!

 I am pretty sure that my 75 readers (which im ecstatic to have gotten that many in the past month of blogging BTW!!!!) want to see some change in my posts! and what better way to do that then have other people write my blog posts for me! if you would be interested please comment your email.

 If you know what your doing.... let me know that as well lol  { & hey } if you've never done a blog guest posts before we can both start together here!! =)